I’m petite with big boobs and people always tell me I’m blessed – they cause me nothing but trauma
A buxom lady has explained why her busty “blessing” can actually be very traumatizing.
The petite lady took to Reddit where she shared the harsh realities of life with a big breast.
The anonymous user shared a story in the r/bigboobproblems thread where her peers commented on her body.
She said she had to buy an XXL jacket for work to make sure it would close all the way.
That decision sparked a big conversation in the break room about how “blessed” she is.
“And then suddenly everyone’s talking about boobs, their sister who has big boobs that they’re jealous of, etc. and everyone is just giving me knowing looks and saying how lucky I am,” reads the post.
The poor girl said it was so overwhelming that she had to walk out of the room and start crying.
“I’m in so much pain all the time. There are times when I can’t walk, my back hurts so much,” she wrote.
“I’m everyone’s ‘Big Boob Girl’.”
She went on to say that her “blessings” brought her nothing but trauma.
“When I was 9, I had to wear a bra. When I was 11, a boy put his hands under my shirt,” she said.
“I would say I was molested when it was more than that when I was 15. And nobody cares.”
The Redditor said she often feels “betrayed” by her body and even dreads her upcoming wedding because people are paying so much attention to her chest.
“How can I feel confident and love myself and my body when it seems like my body is failing me at every opportunity?” she asked.
Other members of the Big Boobs community rushed to her to show their sympathy, agreeing that the positive comments from others don’t really help things.
“I feel your pain! I hate having big boobs,” someone replied.
“I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but I also struggle with being comfortable with my body.
“I think if the women who think we’re so lucky had to live with big breasts, they would change their minds after learning the reality of it.”
However, another lady encouraged her and said that with the right underwear, big breasts don’t have to be that bad.
“I used to hate my boobs before I learned how to fit a bra properly and found options for larger cup sizes!” she wrote.
“The day I went from an ugly beige granny style bra that didn’t fit right to a beautiful, right sized panache bra, my life changed and I felt completely different about my body !“
The original poster responded that she actually ordered a nice bra that day.
“Honestly most of my bras come from value packs at Walmart… step by step!” she wrote.
“This sub really encouraged me to get a nicer bra.”
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