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Like a moth to a flame, you can’t help but be drawn to a scorpion. Seemingly calm, cool and collected, the Scorpio mask hides its enchanting intensity. Although Scorpio may seem interested in you, it can still be hard to tell as Scorpio doesn’t let others in easily. How can you tell if a Scorpio is in love with you (and what can you do to win their affection)?
Ruled by Mars and ruled by Pluto, Scorpio is the solid water sign with the rim! Complex and thoughtful, Scorpio appears reserved at first, albeit extremely charming. Scorpio’s rigid nature is undeniably loyal and devoted, sometimes to the point of dogmatics. As a water sign, Scorpio is no stranger to the extreme depth of emotionality.
“[Scorpio is] Their fixed modality allows them to control their water element better than the other two water signs, making their appeal intoxicating. Scorpios can manifest [the] Depth of emotion and raw passion, it’s an acquired taste that once you learn to like it, you can’t live without it,” says the Scorpio Quadruple Desiree Roby Antilaprofessional astrologer and author of Sun characters in love.
Few know what simmers beneath Scorpio’s sluggish surface. The depth of emotional intensity is kept in check as Scorpio’s psychological awareness, covert desire for control, and powerful pride are not meant for public display. If you are lucky enough to venture into Scorpio’s underworld, then consider yourself one of Scorpio’s closest confidants.
How to attract a Scorpio
Attracting Scorpio is a delicate work of art as this very perceptive water sign doesn’t trust anyone or anything easily. If Scorpio thinks you are being sneaky or dodgy then all bets are off. If you’re too direct or promiscuous sexually, count your losses. If you ask too many questions or refuse to reveal any secrets, accept defeat.
Walking that fine line on tiptoe will not be easy, so you need to be careful how you pursue your Scorpio. Prepare to play the long game by building confidence during this time. Treat all sexual intimacy as a rite of passage with your Scorpio. “Scorpios are typically unable to emotionally detach their feelings from the physical entity. Therefore, it is very difficult for them to share with someone who means nothing to them. Sex with a scorpion is a religious act,” reveals Antila.
What does Scorpio need in love?
If Scorpio is ready to commit to you, Scorpio will have a few deal breakers – Honesty, Loyalty, and Devotion. Think of bonding with Scorpio as reading the fine print of a contract, because you want to know exactly what you’re getting into with Scorpio.
“[Scorpio] requires total loyalty from the one they love; You’re either all in or all out. There can be no in-between. You also need absolute honesty. Scorpios are human lie detectors, and once trust in them is broken, they will cut ties and never hear from them again,” Antila warns.
If you are willing to hold tight to your Scorpio, then pledge your allegiance and absolute truth to them. Comfort Scorpio’s sorrows by letting them know that you will be sincere, trusting, and honorable in your relationship with them.
How to hold a scorpion
Nurture your love for Scorpio by always keeping them in the loop. Scorpio is known for being penetrating, thoughtful and even obsessive. “But out of sheer self-preservation, they don’t trust that easily,” Antila warns. Although Scorpio’s empathy can make them practically telepathic, they won’t know for sure until you say something. While Scorpios aren’t as willing to share their own secrets, they may feel more confident in their relationship when you’re direct. Be honest, vulnerable, and empathetic. Let them into your secret world and Scorpio will reciprocate. But give Scorpio the grace of time to open up. “Scorpios are mysterious, and there are things that will stay secret forever, so it’s wise not to be curious or make assumptions,” Antila warns.
Signs a Scorpio is in love with you
Antila best sums up how to know if Scorpio loves you: “There is nothing diluted about the way a Scorpio loves.” True to Antila’s word, Scorpio promises that there will be no doubting what Scorpio’s love feels like . “If a Scorpio wants you, you will know. They make their intentions crystal clear, so if they’re even halfway with you, there’s a reason. They may not privy you to this information, so don’t expect an explanation,” Antila muses.
Scorpio’s mysterious ways may not make sense at first, but you will know if Scorpio loves you when you are invited into their underworld. Since Scorpio has already been researching and watching you, now it’s your turn to do the same. Without knowing or realizing it, you will be immersed in the powerful psychological realm of Scorpio. Scorpio will reveal layers of themselves that no one else has seen or experienced, making your love uniquely enigmatic.
Which zodiac signs are compatible with Scorpio?
Dating Scorpio is not for the faint of heart, so Scorpio is best able to mate with Water and Earth signs, while struggling to connect with Fire and Air signs on a deeper level.
Fellow water signs are probably Scorpio’s closest matches. If the Scorpio wants an engaging, psychologically complicated relationship, then the Scorpio should find another Scorpio. No one will understand Scorpio sensitivity or depth like another Scorpio. However, both Scorpios need to keep an eye on any self-destructive tendencies to avoid power struggles and control issues in their relationship. If Scorpio is looking for a devoted, caring partner, Cancer could be the perfect match. Cancer can provide a safe space for Scorpio to be vulnerable, while Scorpio can give Cancer the surrender Crab needs to feel loved. But Cancer and Scorpio need to be direct with their feelings for this match to work! Another fantastic option is Pisces, as this spiritual zodiac sign can understand the depths of Scorpio, while Scorpio can transform Pisces’ creativity. As long as Scorpio feels secure in this bond, Pisces’ adaptability may not be an issue.
Earth signs can give Scorpio that tangible, mental and emotional stability. Of all the earth signs, Capricorn is a stalwart opponent for Scorpio! “If [Scorpio and Capricorn] being able to get past each other’s walls, they will connect in a private subterranean level… This secret of this couple is hidden in the intricacies of all their deep love for each other. Their unwavering unity gives them their unbreakable staying power,” says Antila. If Scorpio wants an earth sign that matches loyalty and devotion, then Scorpio’s opposite sign, Taurus, is the way to go. Taurus and Scorpio share a relentless, intoxicating bond that will almost certainly drive both zodiac signs to love. However, both signs must share responsibility for their relationship as neither can have power over the other. When Scorpio wants to have a more casual relationship with an earth sign, mutable Virgo might be the ideal match. Virgo will never stop working on their relationship, which will complement Scorpio’s desire for regeneration, but both need to work on having a pessimistic attitude.
Scorpio is a surprisingly good match for fire signs! Although Aries and Scorpio may seem like an unlikely pair, both signs are ruled by Mars, so they share a like-minded passion and sexual appetite. If Scorpio is to make it work with Aries, then there must be a significant level of understanding on both sides, as neither sign ruled by Mars can dominate. No other fire sign can match Scorpio’s determination and tenacity like Leo, so this pairing could be exhausting but rewarding. Scorpio can credit Leo with courage and passion, while Leo can adore Scorpio as penetrating and hypnotic. But Leo and Scorpio aren’t an easy match, so they have to put their pride aside to make it work. If Scorpio is looking for a casual relationship, then Sagittarius is a great option! Sagittarius’ jubilant, boisterous nature will shake up Scorpio’s sharpness, while Scorpio’s watchful eye might be what the Jupiter-ruled sign needs in a partner. Both zodiac signs will go through a learning curve as to when is the right time to be serious or carefree with each other.
Finally, Scorpio’s most difficult pairings are with the air signs. At first glance, Scorpio and Libra might initially be attracted to each other, as Libra is typically conventionally attractive while Scorpio is sensually enchanting. When Scorpio gets to know Libra, they may find that they need more than just sensual attraction to keep their relationship going! When Libra isn’t working out, Scorpio might like the idea of dating Aquarius, but they’re bound to run into a few problems. “Scorpio and Aquarius are [another] hard. Due to their similarly solid nature, neither of them will want to be pushed into anything. They don’t have to lead, but they certainly don’t want to follow. They are both integral to themselves, which sometimes makes it difficult for them to compromise with each other. However, when they can adjust to each other’s different vibrations, their harmony can be powerful and incredibly meaningful,” Antila warns. Of all the air signs, Scorpio’s best match would probably be Gemini! While this may seem like an odd couple, Gemini’s inquisitive, talkative nature would eventually unearth Scorpio’s darkest secrets. These two could chat for days, but the catch is don’t get too fixated on one topic!
However, if Scorpio chooses to be with you, never doubt that Scorpio will deviate from your connection!
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