As inconsequential as it may seem to some, your hair can be a central part of your identity – to the point that a hairstyle, whether it’s a subtle cut or something more intense, is not just can change how you look, but also how you feel about your hair. yourself. While some new cuts are exciting for some, for others it can be overwhelming as they watch the scissors cut into their hair, no matter how small the cut. to what extent. Gabrielle Union know this all too well. When she’s had a haircut in the past, “I’ll feel like I’m trimming away my beauty,” she says. Seductive on a Zoom call. “I’ve cut my femininity, and I have a real love-hate relationship with length, texture, color, and style.”
It took years of therapy and travel for Union to quell that anxiety and develop a more positive relationship with her hair. “There’s no way to be feminine. I’m flying with short hair, long hair, [or] no hair,” she said. Because of this personal work, her big haircut in 2021 – the result of her simply wanting something new – does not evoke a level of anxiety that immediately even a small haircut will also be there.
It’s her versatility with hairstyles and general beauty that she admires in her 14-year-old daughter, Zaya Wade, who dyed her hair pink and blue and played with a variety of protections. “It’s been a huge source of pride for me and the rest of the family that Zaya is so comfortable being whoever she is at this point in time,” Union told her daughter, who was seated. beside her in our interview.
While she feels like her identity is tied to her hair, Wade is discouraged from doing a big thing, which she says makes her “feel a little bit different and more empowered, ” in April. Even though she loves the braided hairstyle, the box braid still holds a more special place in her heart. “I feel like a diva [when] I have hair to flip,” she said of braids. But long hair doesn’t matter to her; it’s nice to have the option.
https://www.allure.com/story/gabrielle-union-zaya-wade-interview Therapy Helped Gabrielle Union Repair Her Relationship With Her Hair — Interview